There are at least five artists with the name In Loving Memory: 1) In Loving Memory was an emotional spazzy hardcore band from Des Moines, Iowa that formed in August 1998 when the band's members were only 16-17 years old at the time. Formerly known as "Day of Atonement," ILM's initial line-up featured Brian on bass guitar, Spencer on drums, and Jordan on guitar. Justin Heuss was the original vocalist. When Justin moved to Pella, Brian took up bass and vocals. Later, they added Joe on bass, Jen on dual vocals and Tanner on second guitar. When Tanner decided to .