The song was written after my sister-in-law was diagnosed with Stage 3 breast cancer. Like many families facing a cancer diagnosis, we experienced the shock, fear, uncertainty, and flood of emotions that come when life suddenly changes course.
Rather than focusing on defeat, the song focuses on resilience. It acknowledges that some battles are difficult and unfair, but it also celebrates the strength it takes to keep moving forward one day at a time. The recurring message, "You don't fold—you fight," serves as the heart of the song and a reminder that courage isn't the absence of fear—it's the decision to keep going despite it.
While inspired by a personal experience, "Things Have Gone Tits Up" is dedicated to everyone affected by cancer—patients, survivors, caregivers, family members, and friends. It is meant to offer encouragement, solidarity, and hope to those facing one of life's toughest challenges.
At its core, the song is about perseverance, strength, and refusing to let a diagnosis define the ending of the story. It's a reminder to keep fighting, keep showing up, and keep believing that there are brighter days ahead.more