trigger warning: song about IPSV
⬇️ LYRICS and STORY⬇️
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This is a song I wrote about IPSV. The worst kind of hurt, is the hurt brought to you by a loved one. Someone you trust and someone you should feel safe with.
After a relationship of almost 5 years. My now ex boyfriend decided not to take no for an answer when I said I didn't want to be intimate. I woke up in the middle of the night. I was hurting and didn't understand why or what happened until it dawned on me. I confronted him about it and he confessed to taking advantage of me in my sleep. After unnecessary comments like "then why didn't you just wake up and say no"
I've kept this song to myself for a year but if anyone went through the same thing and this song can let them know they're not alone. I recorded his confession and included parts of the conversation in this song.
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lyrics
simpel whispers don't make sense
they're simply cutting through my head
silence all I never head
when will this end
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solidify my sadness
the tears now let it sink in
it's fear that I am thinking
oh lord forgive me for I'm sinning
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come to me now
I am wiping my eyes out
so baby come to me now
together we're drowning a little bit happier than alone
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alone in misery
but you told me I'd be free soon
I'm still waiting for a savior that won't come to save me
no
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I push you off of me
I'm confused cause I look up and you're not near me
when will the intrusive thoughts that nearly killed
every bit of life lust that I used to feel leave
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In Dutch: "I only did it once", "it wasn't just once", "I'm sorry"
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please forgive me I have sinned
I felt pain but had to be sure
was awake when he started to
fondle me, said no before though
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turned away he turned me back
made sure my eyes were close but felt him
going inside without permission tell me
do the things I told you make me promiscuous or
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I am right for wanting to make sure
I was aware of what he did
cause otherwise if he deflected
confrontations I'd be neglected
and stuck in that mess till forever and ever so yeah
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I was awake during the second time not the first
it doesn't make it right what he did, I should be heard
but I can't ruin his life, what about his next girl
wonder how many times he got away being a monster
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you know who you are, karma's gonna get you
in Dutch: "no sweetie please I don't want to lose you, I can't lose you"more