"Not To Me" is more than just a song — it’s a letter to my wife. She sees the changes in her body. The stretch marks. The softness. The things time and motherhood and life leave behind. And some days, I see the way she looks at herself — like she’s less than she used to be. But I don’t see any of that. I see the girl I fell for, dancing in a dive bar like nobody was watching. The one who made me feel like I belonged somewhere for the first time. And I still see her — in every laugh, every glance, every tired sigh. Nothing about the way I love her has faded. This song is my way of trying to show her what I see when I look at her. And maybe it’s something someone else out there needs to hear too. For anyone loving someone through their self-doubt… this is for you.more